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Deep Talks runs on three pillars — Ethos, Logos, and Pathos. Together they shape how we speak, reason, and listen.
These 5 points of conduct form the ethos of our exchange. Everyone is encouraged to moderate each other on them.
Central
One person speaks at a time. Multiple conversations at once are called a breakaway and are discouraged.
Hands
To maintain order, we prioritise those who raise their hands. This ensures equal speaking opportunities for everyone.
Topical
Stay on the current topic. Shifting to a different subject is called a tangent and should be avoided.
Flow
Build on what was just said. Introducing unrelated points or jumping back to an earlier idea is called fragmenting and breaks the flow.
Fallacy
Use clear reasoning. Avoid logical fallacies like ad hominem (personal attacks) and strawman (misrepresenting someone's argument).
These 15 well-established logical fallacies form the logos of the exchange. Know them so you can avoid them — and call them out respectfully.
Ad Hominem
Attacking the person instead of the argument.
Strawman
Misrepresenting someone's argument to make it easier to attack. The opposite is the steelman — trying to defend the opponent's view — and it's highly encouraged.
Appeal to Emotion
Using fear, pity, or other emotions instead of reasoning.
Appeal to Authority
Citing authority as proof without examining the argument.
Red Herring
Diverting the argument to a different topic.
Appeal to Popularity (Ad Populum)
Claiming something is true because many people believe it.
Begging the Question (Circular Reasoning)
Assuming the conclusion within the premise.
False Dilemma
Presenting two options as if they are the only possibilities.
Equivocation
Using a word in different senses within the same argument.
Amphiboly
Using a grammatically ambiguous statement to mislead.
Hasty Generalisation
Drawing a broad conclusion from insufficient evidence.
False Cause (Post Hoc)
Assuming that because A happened before B, A caused B.
Slippery Slope
Arguing that one small step will inevitably lead to extreme consequences.
Appeal to Nature
Arguing something is good simply because it's "natural".
No True Scotsman
Redefining a group to exclude inconvenient counterexamples.
These guidelines support the pathos of our exchanges — creating a space of shared presence where all feel safe to speak and hear.
Presence
Enter each conversation with awareness. Be fully here. Let go of distractions.
Openness
Listen with a willingness to be changed. Let others finish their thoughts before responding.
Respect
Acknowledge different perspectives without needing to agree. Honour each speaker as a person.
Patience
Allow space for silence and reflection. Take a pause if you feel reactive or defensive.
Kindness
Respond with care, even in disagreement. Challenge ideas, not people.
Civility
Avoid sarcasm, mockery, or tone that shuts others down. Maintain respect throughout.
Courage
Speak your truth with honesty, even when it feels vulnerable. Let discomfort be part of the growth.
Consideration
Be mindful of how your words land. Speak not just to be right, but to connect.
Focus
Return your attention to the discussion if your mind drifts. Remain engaged and intentional.
Attention
Notice your internal reactions. Self-awareness supports collective understanding.
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